Your profile
Start with your name, age, where you live and who you are looking for. Add education, family, lifestyle, cultural background and partner preferences whenever you are ready. Nothing cultural is ever required, and every such question can be answered with “Prefer not to say”, “Not applicable” or “Not sure”.
Review
Before your profile is visible to anyone, a member of our team checks it and your photos. If something needs changing, we tell you what and why.
Who sees what
Each detail has an audience: members, verified members, people you have matched with, people you approve one by one, or only you. You can see your profile exactly as each of them would, before anyone else does.
Suggestions and matches
Suggestions come with reasons: which of your preferences a profile meets, which of theirs you meet, and what differs. When you both express interest, you match, and a conversation can begin.
Family
Parents, siblings or guardians can help with their own sign-in and the permissions you give them. They never use your sign-in, and they cannot change your security settings or see your identity documents.